Tuesday, October 31, 2017

Shout Out to the Ladies!

It's that time of year again.

Halloween is upon us.

I break out the Vampire Wine (Sip the Blood of the Vine" ha ha ha ha), make the Dracula truffles, post ridiculous things online like the Count's counting video from Sesame Street (love that guy).

  Mmmmmm...chocolates...


I am currently reading The Rules of Magic, the prequel to Practical Magic by Alice Hoffman. That also happens to be one of my favorite movies even though I know it doesn't follow the book very well. The Dovekeepers was the same. Didn't follow the book too closely, but the movie was phenomenal. I never liked that actress on NCIS, but I developed a love for her when I saw The Dovekeepers.

And it occurs to me, lots of my favorite movies and books celebrate women. Many of Alice Hoffman's books celebrate women and sisterhood, and she is one of my favorite authors. The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants, Hot in Cleveland, The Golden Girls, and  Designing Women name a few more. Even Sex and the City, which got a little ridiculous. At its very core, it was a celebration of friendship and sisterhood. Women don't need to be related to feel close as family.

Buffy the Vampire Slayer boasts a strong female lead, but it also celebrates her sisterhood. Her circle of friends are the most important thing to her, and without her witchy friend Willow, she wouldn't have gotten as far as she did.

And one of my favorite scenes in Practical Magic is near the end, when Sally needs help banishing the evil spirit from her sister, Gillian. The elder aunts ask her, "Do you have any friends?" So Sally uses her daughter's school's phone tree to contact all the women she knows, and they band together, creating the circle needed to cleanse Gillian of the evil spirit of her boyfriend.

I may not be a witch, but I do have a sisterhood. And who says witchcraft is what is fabled in the books and movies? I use a broom, I live alone at the end of the block with several cats, and I'm pretty sure Puckett is a familiar.

Also, there is magic in my truffles.

I'm just saying.

Women need each other, I believe, to keep their sanity. A sisterhood is essential to a woman's emotional and mental health, and those women who say they don't need friends or they only get along with men because other women are nasty and catty, well, I feel sorry for those women. They are missing out on one of the most magical experiences living a mortal life has to offer. We all tear each other down, or make snide remarks about other women, and in recent events on the heels of the #MeToo movement, I start to wonder why we do this. And I am not innocent. I've done it, and I'm just as culpable.

But where does this come from? This catty, petty way of tearing other women down to make ourselves feel better or more desirable in the eyes of men? And it really does seem all in competition over men. I've been called a slut, a whore, a cocktease, a prude, and all by other women, usually because I had the nerve to smile/talk to/say hi to a man.

Now don't get me wrong. I don't hate men. I have a boyfriend and the coolest dad in the world. I have a brother who's pretty awesome and nephews. I love my friends' husbands, and my guy friends: The Cowboy, the Paleontologist. Men are great. And we cannot blame men for the discord among women. Most men are oblivious to such things. They want their food, their beer, a good game on TV, good sex, and to be treated with respect.

They do seem to be the root of the problem though, and generally, with some exceptions, through no fault of their own. Again, with some exceptions, women do this to themselves. I've had women friends drop me because they'd rather spend time with a man. I've had women I don't even know, have maybe spoken two words to, loudly proclaim to anyone who will listen that they hate my guts. I've had women tell my friends they dislike me because I flirted with their husbands and when said husbands were pointed out, I had no idea who they were. I've befriended ex-boyfriends' new girlfriends, and boyfriends' ex-girlfriends, and people think I'm insane.

Is this necessary? Is it just bad form anymore to be friendly to others without any agenda? Upon meeting new women I usually look for something I have in common with her in order to bridge a friendship. I want to be friends with everyone until they give me a reason to not want to be friends with them. I have encountered other women who look at all women with suspicion until proven otherwise. I find this sad.

So this Halloween, let's embrace the sisterhood. We all know how it feels to be a woman, and we have all experienced the same challenges. I know there are people out there rolling their eyes at the #MeToo movement, and I normally don't get involved in these social media campaigns myself. But there is one thing it has taught me, it's that nearly every woman I know has been the victim of some kind of sexual assault or harassment. She may not have outlined her experience, but she posted #MeToo.

And so did I.

We need to support each other in this, not tear each other down or victim blame or discredit someone's experience as being "lesser" than someone else's. For my own experience, I've spent years saying I should have known better and not gotten myself into the situation in the first place. I own my responsibility in what happened, but at the end of the day, maybe I should have known better, but he should have too.

The worst is when another woman tells me I had it coming, or that I deserved it.

We should not do this to each other.

Let's support each other. Let's embrace the circle and the sisterhood. Let's be those women in Practical Magic, who when Sally really needed them to save her sister's life - a sister many of them had cut down as a promiscuous threat - they banded together and rushed to her side. Instead of leaving Gillian to her fate and saying she deserved it because she should have known better or because she was a slut, they formed the circle and supported her, letting her know she was not alone.

Men are not the enemy, but other women aren't either. Instead women should be each others' allies in this mortal life that's hard enough without all of us turning on each other with hate and vitriol.

I thank God every day for my sisterhood. Some of them I haven't seen in months, talked to in years, but every single one of those women is precious to me. Every single one has had an impact in my life that I treasure. They are my family.

In the words of Alice Hoffman:

"Do as you will, but harm no one.
What you give will be returned to you threefold.
Fall in love whenever you can."

And I'll add my own words to it: "Eat as much chocolate as you want, enjoy fine wines, and always share both with your sisters."

Tuesday, October 24, 2017

Dracula Truffle, Dracula Wine, Dracula Cat

I'm not one to toot my own horn, but I'm tooting.

I didn't have the best week, and I finished it off by staying home from work sick Thursday and Friday. My pets were angels until Friday evening when California Guy showed up with Surina. For the rest of the weekend the cats were bouncing off the walls like the demon-possessed. Surina whined and barked outside the entire time and in the space of twenty-four hours took five dumps. Percy got into something and took six dumps in one morning. And Tess, well, Tess just hid in the corner under the porch most of the time.

I don't know if the weather shifting was the culprit, of the fact that Halloween is around the corner.

At any rate, I got no sleep Friday and Saturday night, but I did manage to overcome my cold.
Taking care of three cats and a dog and then another dog on the weekends is a full time job. I'm exhausted waking up in the morning just thinking about cleaning the litter boxes and the backyard.

I decided to rise to the Halloween occasion and wrapped myself back into chocolate making. I continue the quest for the perfect chocolate/wine pairing.

I believe I may have found it.

I've been having a great time experimenting with different chocolate flavors. Most recently I made a milk chocolate truffle with rum (not my favorite, but not bad, and yes, "Why is the rum gone?"), and a white chocolate truffle with anisette, which tasted like a root beer float. And that always makes me think of "Finding Nemo" when Dory says, "He either said to go to the back of the throat, or he wants a root beer float."

I digress.

In honor of Halloween, I present the Dracula Truffle, a dark, bittersweet truffle with a pinch of chili pepper and the added intensity of instant espresso powder.

It was the perfect day to make it too. The wind was blowing the dried leaves everywhere, making that eerie crackly, rustling sound that one associates with an autumn day. The smell of rain lingered in the air, and grey clouds scudded across the sky, blocking out the sun. The day was dark, the chocolate was dark, and the wine it paired with was dark. The truffle has a dark chocolate shell with a satisfying snap to it, and it pairs with this Ravenswood Zinfandel.

I wanted to try it with the Dracula Merlot, but alas, the bottle was empty, and I didn't feel like opening another one.

The Zin is intense, but softens in the presence of the chocolate. The mouthfeel is velvet. The finish is sinful.

I guess I shouldn't be surprised that the perfect Halloween truffle/wine pairing is a devil's chocolate truffle pairing with a Zin.

Sin...get it? Ha ha ha.

Unfortunately, I made a complete amateur blunder by boiling water for tea while my chocolates were still sitting on the counter, setting. Water in tempered chocolate results in this:


The marbled texture is actually the chocolate breaking down. Nothing ruins chocolate faster then getting water in it. A drop of water, wet hands, steam from a tea kettle. It doesn't matter. It'll mess up your chocolate faster than you can say "Boo."

Boo.

But at least now I know. Make the tea AFTER the chocolates are set and they are as far away from the tea kettle as possible! And the truffles are still divine, and still blend perfectly with the wine.

This week's blog will be short as I'm finally on a roll with my novel and every moment I'm writing or working on something else, I'm not working on my novel.

And that damn thing needs to be finished.

For those who are interested, there is a vampire in said novel.

I may give my protagonist a weakness. The weakness of chocolate.

Oh, wait. That's my weakness.

And if anyone is feeling adventurous and lives in the area, stop by and I'll give you a taste of wine and chocolate you'll not forget any time soon.


Presenting the Dracula Truffle. Or the Dracula Wine. Definitely the Dracula Cat in the background, and he has the fangs to prove it.


Tuesday, October 17, 2017

Friday the 13th

Friday the 13th was a circus.

I half-expected Jason to jump out from behind a tree and take us all down with the chainsaw, that's how weird it was.

The cats definitely took weird to a new level, even for them. I've been having issues with Puckett throwing up every day for the last few weeks, and that usually means she needs to go to the vet and get her B12 shot again. Now she's developed the rather disgusting habit of wolfing her food, yakking it up, and then eating it again.

She apparently thinks she is a wolf. They regurgitate their food, but usually for their young.

Maybe Puckett needs partially digested food to go down easier, who knows? I've offered her all manner of canned food and she turns her little nose up at all of them.

So Puckett was due for her shot, and I decided to take Willow in as well because her entire backside was just covered in mats. The poor thing, she's so fluffy because she is half Persian. So her fur is very fine and soft. It mats easily just like a long-haired cat, and while she does try to groom herself, she just gets nowhere with that fluff.

She also won't let me brush her. She sees the brush and disappears. If I try to brush her she tolerates it for a few seconds as long as I'm just running it lightly over her, not digging in to remove the mats. The few times I was brave enough to wrestle her down and take a brush and scissors to her mats, I came away bloody, and she screamed and squalled like I was murdering her. It's too much. It's too traumatic. It's easier to just take her to the vet and let them buzz her.

So that Friday morning I collected Puckett and Willow and got them into the car. Willow is easy. I just grab her when she least expects it and stuff her in the carrier. Then I plop her in the car. Puckett is trickier. If she knows I plan to grab her, that fat little tub of lard sure can move. She's slower than molasses most of the time, but she gets the idea that I want to put her in the car and she's greased lightning. I have to make sure everything is ready to go before I fetch her. I have my shoes on, my special jacket that keeps hair and claws out of my clothes, and my keys in one hand. I have my bag ready in the car so all I have to do is put Puckett on the front seat, get in, and off we go.

That morning I was all set to go. Keys in hand, shoes on, jacket on, Willow and bag waiting in the car. I approached Puckett and stroked her. She started purring. I started to pick her up and she managed to hop out of my hands, waddling off. Luckily I was able to grab her and tuck her under my arm before she got her burst of speed, but if I hadn't been that quick she would have shot downstairs and disappeared under the couch.

Then forget it.

Have you ever tried to pull a twenty-pound cat out from under a couch with barely six inches between the bottom and the floor?

It's impossible. I don't even know how she fits under there.

I got everyone loaded up and headed for the vet. Usually it's just a drop-off. Puckett needs her B12, Willow needs a shave, call me when they're done. This morning everyone and their brother decided to go to the vet as well, so I had to wait with two grumbling irritated pissed off furballs in the car. Dogs were dancing around barking, the receptionist and vet tech were harried, and people were impatient, wanting to get out of there so they could go on to wherever it was they needed to go. I needed to get to work, and I was already late.

I finally got everyone dropped off and decided I needed to fill up my gas tank. I zipped into the gas station down the road from the vet where only two cars were camped out at the pumps. I figured I'd be in and out, but because I had one of those coupons, I had to go inside to pay.

What is it about women and purses? Ahead of me to pay at the gas station counter were two ladies who could not get their shit together. Or rather their shit out of their bag in order to pay. And they all had a mountain of unhealthy crap to pay for on top of it.

The library is like that too. Women come up to pay for their prints. I have one or two pages and request the ten or twenty cents. They then proceed to dig around in their purses for the next fifteen minutes, looking for a dime.

Five days later...

I digress. I finally got my gas paid for and ran for my car so I could get to work.

I was only ten minutes late.

When I picked the cats up at lunch, I figured I could just take them home, feed them, eat lunch, and head back to work, no problem. That's how it always goes when it's vet day. Puckett has been to the vet so many times, she's old hat. She goes, she comes home, she eats a bowl of food, licks herself, and takes a nap.

Not this time. I got them home. I brought Willow in first and let her out of her carrier. Poor kitty! She was bald from the shoulders back. She looked like a little kitten-shaped lion. She didn't seem overly bothered, though. When Puckett got shaved she hid her face in shame. Willow only seemed to care about food, so I gave her a bowl and she started hogging out. Then I went to get Puckett. I brought her inside and set her considerable bulk on the kitchen floor.

She immediately started hissing at Willow.

This has never happened before. These two have lived together for over six years. They're friends. They don't fight. They aren't exactly bosom cuddle buddies, but they respect each other and like each other. Willow and Percy fight. Puckett and Percy play fight. Willow and Puckett have never once engaged in any kind of altercation that I've seen.

I thought maybe Puckett thought Willow looked weird and hissed at her because she didn't recognize her. Poor Willow had no idea why her buddy was hissing at her ,and kept trying to go up and sniff noses. Puckett was having none of it. She hissed again and crawled under the table, glaring at all of us. I tried the towel thing. Rub a towel on Willow, then rub it on Puckett, and vice versa. You'd think I was trying to rub offal all over Puckett the way she reacted. She didn't hiss at me (she learned her lesson the last time), but she sure gave me the bitchiest look and stalked back under the table, refusing to come out for a pat.

Then Percy joined the fun.

He got hissed at too. Puckett swatted Willow, hissed at Percy, glared at me, and turned her back on all of us.

I concluded she was a pissy bitch and went back to work. I just hoped they didn't kill each other while I was gone.

Wouldn't you know, as soon as I got home from work, everyone congregated in the kitchen as though nothing had happened. Puckett was happy and purring and tolerating the other two cats in her presence. Willow did not seem bothered in the least that half her fur was missing. Percy was his usual demanding self when it comes to food.

I shouldn't have worried.

One would think no one had even been to the vet or possessed by that evil spirit of Friday the 13th.

It was so anticlimactic.

I can hardly wait until the next full moon or, Heaven help us, Halloween.


Poor hairless kitty


She is not amused.

Tuesday, October 10, 2017

A Little Early Halloween?

What is it with the spiders lately?

Remember Spiderzilla from a few weeks ago?

Well, he's back.

I came home from work the other day and there sat the beast, rather cheekily, on my door in front of God and country, as if waiting for me to invite him inside for a cup of tea.

He must have been out of his little spider goggles.

After passing around to several friends the picture I took of Spiderzilla, we deduced that he is probably a male hobo spider.

A very LARGE male hobo spider.

Or Aggressive House Spider as he is affectionately known.

How charming.

They actually aren't that bad. Initially, their bite was considered extremely venomous that could cause horrible damage to a person should they be bitten, but I don't believe that to be the case anymore. Their bite can probably still make some people very sick, especially if they are allergic to insect or arachnid venom, but it shouldn't actually kill anyone.

Or maybe I just tell myself that for comfort knowing that monstrosity is hanging out outside my front door.

If the little beast bites you, you might still want to go to the emergency room.

I'm not afraid of spiders. I don't really care that they have overtaken my crawl space and found their way into my house at random times. Spiderzilla hasn't yet, but one of his friends did. I really was more worried about what a hobo spider bite would do to one of my cats rather than myself as they are smaller, and maybe their bodies can't process venom the same way as humans. That worry was laid to rest the other day when I found yet another hobo spider – the smaller but spitting image of the beast tapping at my chamber door the other day – curled up in death on one of my carpeted step.

I underestimate my cats, I think. They are adorable, sweet, furry darlings with huge eyes and the overwhelming need for cuddles, but they are also ruthless killing machines. If they were five times their size, I would be their prey and cuddles would not cross their minds. I must remember that cats, like humans, enjoy killing for fun. They play with their food. Sometimes they won't even eat their food, and I think they get some kind of sick pleasure out of torturing smaller, less fortunate creatures than themselves.

This spider had no chance. One of my cats, I assume Percy or Willow as Puckett usually doesn't care, played with and tortured this supposedly venomous creature until they killed it. Then lost interest in it and left it for me to find. If the creature was all that dangerous or had managed to bite one of my cats, I would have had a sick animal on my hands by now, but they have happily gone on with their lives as though nothing had ever happened.

I, on the other hand, mourned the poor creature.

That doesn't mean I want it's larger older brother to find some way into my house. That thing is still roughly the size of a fifty cent piece, and while it may not be aggressive or as venomous as the story books like to say, is still not something I want in my house.

I no longer worry about venomous creatures in my house though. The cats will take them out, lickety split.

I do still wonder, however, why Spiderzilla felt the need to greet me coming home from work by perching blatantly on my door. As I didn't want the beast in my house, I didn't open the door until I had prodded him off the door with my trusty railroad tie, the same piece I'd used the last time to shoo him off my walkway.

He scrambled onto the tie and began marching deliberately toward my hand.

I dropped the tie and he crawled between planks of my front porch.

I wondered, briefly, where exactly that leads to. My crawl space? Under the house? Somehow into my living room which is attached to the crawl space? I may eventually find him sitting on my couch, scrolling through Netflix.

On the one hand, I'm not too worried about that as Percy or Willow will handle it.

On the other hand, I don't really want him to get in here because 1.) ew, and I don't want to find him in my bed; and 2.) the cats will no doubt murder him and he didn't get that big and that cheeky by getting himself murdered easily.

He has to be pretty old. It would be a shame to end his life now just because he's careless.

Then this weekend, I bought a bottle of Portuguese Rose wine. California Guy and I opened it to enjoy as an aperitif, and in it was floating a tiny white spider.

Really? In my wine?

Now granted the winery was probably just extremely careless in bottling, and had managed to trap the little booger in there. But still. A perfectly good bottle of wine and there's a spider floating in it.

I felt like that meant something.

Something other than a careless bottler, intent on ruining my enjoyment of wine.

Like no drinking that night.

Right, like that stopped us. We opened a bottle of Bordeaux.

They seem to be everywhere, these spiders.

I found another what I assume was a hobo spider floating in the cats' water dish, looking as dead as the one I found on the steps. I carried the water bowl upstairs and dumped it into the sink. Next thing I knew, that thing came alive and started scrambling all over the sink while I frantically tried to scoop him back into the water dish so I could throw him outside. At one point he made a beeline for my fingers, and I dropped the water dish into the sink sending him scurrying into the drain.

Thank God he didn't go into the drain only to emerge several hours later to surprise me while cooking.

Or show up in my wine again.

Even at work they are cropping up in the weirdest places. I was helping a lady print her pages, just innocently taking money and releasing print jobs, and here came this rather interesting-looking fellow just scurrying across the Reference Desk like he owned it. He was large, black, and had white spots. I thought he might be a bold jumper, but he didn't stop long enough for me to look, and the lady I was helping started giving me funny looks because of the funny looks I was giving the spider.

At least she didn't see it. I can imagine the scream now.

I pulled a blank medicine card the other night, and since one is meant to put in their own animal when one pulls that card, I immediately, and without thought, mentally put in the spider.

Spiders are the embodiment of creativity and symbolize female energy. I keep seeing male hobos, so I'm not sure what that means, though they do spin the most beautiful funnel webs. Females do, anyway. Males apparently spend a lot of time searching for mates rather than spinning webs, but they can still produce silk.

I'm having trouble with my creativity so if they're trying to inspire me, it isn't working. And I'm seeing males, not females, so does that mean my creativity needs inspiring or my love life?

Maybe it's just a bad omen. "By the pricking of my thumbs, something wicked this way comes," as Shakespeare said.

Or they know it's the 60th anniversary of Charlotte's Web by E.B. White, and they just want to help celebrate.

Or they're here to celebrate Halloween early.

Chances are they are just freezing their little spider butts off because the colder weather has set in and they are seeking warmth. Why warmth has to be in my house is beyond me, but spiders aren't stupid.

There sure are a lot of them lately. If they are symbolizing something, I wonder if I'll ever find out what exactly?



Enjoying one of the last nice days before winter. 


The Halloween display




Wednesday, October 4, 2017

Cat Litter Saga Part 3

I've been through clay litter, pine pellets, corn litter, walnut litter, and pine shaving litter.

They have all failed me.

Now I'm on this grass seed business.

I walked into the Petco the other day, and when the employee asked me if he could help me with something, I asked, "Do you have any cat litter that is not one hundred percent crap?"

In retrospect, I may have come off sounding a bit rude, but I was frustrated and fed up with the shit I've been shoveling.

Both the real shit and the shit it's buried in.

The guy blinked a bit. So I asked him if he had any recommendations on cat litter.

By then he was looking a bit uncomfortable and a little like a trapped rabbit, but he took me over to the cat litter aisle and pointed out all the different options.

I went through each of them, airing my complaints. First I tried The World's Best Cat Litter. It made my house smell like a feed store. Then I tried the walnut stuff. Boy, was that a mess. Then the pine shavings. Wasn't so much a mess as it does not deliver what it says on the package (but then neither does the World's Best Cat Litter). The package says odor control, 99.9% dust free, clumping litter.

It says that on all of these litters.

What a crock.

The corn stuff clumps and is easily scoopable (and also flushable), but it isn't 99.9% dust free. The dust found itself settling everywhere which is probably why my house smelled like a feed store. The walnut stuff also settled everywhere, and this stuff was dark so everything ended up looking dirty all the time. The pine stuff was light and fluffy and didn't track around near as much as the other stuff, but it didn't clump. The package said clumpable. It didn't clump for shit. It also didn't clump shit. I'd try to scoop up the "clump" of pee in the box and it would disintegrate, scattering all over the litter box and the rest of the clean litter. I was changing and throwing out litter every other day and boy does that get expensive.

Litter is expensive anyway.

The poor Petco employee was friendly, but no help, stating that he didn't really know much about cat litter and it sounded like I'd already tried plenty of them with no luck. So I grabbed the bag of stuff I haven't tried yet. It's made of grass or grass seed or whatever, so far, doesn't smell, doesn't leave dust, and clumps very well (almost to the point of cement). The only problem is that it's a mess. Percy flings it from the box like he's digging to China, and I find it all the way on the other side of the room. He tracks it up the steps and I even found some in the bathroom which is two floors up from the litter boxes.

There are a couple more litters I haven't tried yet. There's some kind of absorbent crystal stuff that looks like it might be too sharp on kitty's paws. I already have issues with litter box aversion so I don't need to convince them they never want to go near the boxes again. There is, of course, clay litter, which is my absolute last resort (but I will go to the Arm and Hammer stuff out of desperation). There's also a wheat based litter, and I thought, "How stupid." When you think about it, the corn stuff is stupid too. Cats shouldn't be fed grains, so a smart cat owner will eliminate grain based foods. Most commercial cat and dog foods are filled with corn or grain fillers, and are actually responsible for weight gain and health problems. I feed my pets (well, except Percy who eats ID and I was horrified to read the first ingredient is corn - vets should know better) a high quality, limited ingredient diet that is mostly protein and no grains. Why the hell would I give my cats a cat litter made of grains which they dig around in and then lick off their paws?

Duh.

Percy already has tummy issues. Even the ID isn't doing him much good. I thought about switching him to Blue Buffalo, though they've come under the gun before for false advertising.

I'm getting dangerously close to just throwing the cats a raw chicken and saying, "Here, have at it."

Maybe they'd all be happier as mousers.

I try my best with their diets (and Willow won't touch anything else but the food I give her now), but I'm not going to make issues worse with their cat litter.

The grass stuff so far will suffice. Every morning there's a scattering of it all over the floor around the litter boxes, and I step in it (and that's just ooky, stepping on scattered litter with bare feet - ICK), but at least it clumps and is easy to clean. And it doesn't smell. It also diminishes the smell of poop.

All this bathroom behavior is just an ongoing drama. After months of using the litter box, Willow once again decided to pee elsewhere, and this time, the little bitch peed on the carpeted step right next to the water bowl. She's been pretty obsessive every morning about jumping into the bathtub after I shower to frantically lap up the water in the drain and I couldn't figure out what her issue was.

I found the pee spot the other day because I happened to sniff it. So I drenched it in carpet cleaner and vinegar and moved the water bowl.

Willow is now back to drinking out of the water bowl.

Are you kidding me? You pee next to the bowl and then you can't drink out of it? Well, don't pee next to the bowl, stupid! I know cats don't like to drink or eat where they eliminate, but if she's THAT stupid, then I just don't know anymore. The bowl has been there for years. She knows that.

So she's back in her cage at night.

My nights are now spent playing musical cats. Willow sacks out on the kitty tower downstairs while I watch TV, and Puckett has been Bogarting the dog bed. Tess has been banned from the bedroom at night because she's started peeing on the floor and refuses to go out in the backyard after dark. I'll let her our front now, and she pees and has no issue (maybe I have a ghost or an evil spirit in the backyard, who knows). But she's still old and has lost control of her bladder, so I put a gate up to keep her out of the bedroom at night. This leaves one soft spot for her to sleep, the dog bed. Of course she can't sleep there because Puckett's considerable bulk is taking it up.

Dear God. So here's the night: Remove Willow from the kitty tower and move her to the cage, remove Puckett from the dog bed and put her on my bed, put up the gate to lock the dog out and put her on her bed, and Percy is left to fend for himself .

My morning and evening rituals are exhausting.

I'm ready for more wine and truffles.





Percy believes the dog toys all belong to him. Of course the cat toys all belong to him, too...